イラストレーター“柏原昇店”が描く二男一女の育児・子育て4コマ漫画。 家族を白くまのキャラクターに差替え、子供の成長、日々の暮らし、ママの乳がんの闘病記やその後の経過について時に真面目に時に楽しく、マンガで描いています。 現在は無事ママンの乳がん闘病を乗り越え、末っ子 ...
2022.01.25 07:44 kiiingoweez9024 4348 0622 7880. Always down for a raid. I also send gifts
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2022.01.25 07:44 ginsu-pd I posted a video on my YouTube channel about my Struggles With Body Image After Age 25
2022.01.25 07:44 DokkanIsMyMiddleName Is it worth saving shards?
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2022.01.25 07:44 JennayyPennayy I really can’t figure out if I should keep trying or just give up.
This is a long one guys.
Husband(m35) and I (f30) have been married for about five years, together for eight. We started off as best friends. Now out relationship hasn’t always been great, despite us both feeling like we’ve always had an unexplainable connection, I’ve always felt like since we moved in together, it just seemed like he got comfy and stopped dating me. He never proposed, just took me to pick a ring and we put it on shared credit, something I have always brought up as a running joke with him because it was always something I really dreamed of and never got. Anyway, I’ve always felt our entire relationship I’ve had to pull intimacy out of him, especially after we got married. He always told me he doesn’t watch porn, he doesn’t go looking at girls online and things like that. He basically always seemed like a dream guy, like of course he likes women but he only had eyes for me kind of thing. But no matter how hard I tried to get him to be more open with me he just wouldn’t budge. He never really seemed to like talking to me about sex, what he thinks is hot. He’s always been so closed off. And not much of a date person, always said he just sucks at planning things. But I still always felt so secure in our relationship since at the beginning he told me he always had a crush on me. Fast forwarding to a few years ago I went through postpartum depression, where I started to feel resent to him for not being affectionate and open with me, and apparently this made me meaner with him, but he never really seemed to understand that it was because he never really reciprocated the intimacy and romance I desired so badly. The PPD got bad and eventually got 5150’d and got real help, put on a ton of meds and some made me gain weight. I finally felt like I had control of myself and my life but still, lack of connection from my husband, if anything less of it. I noticed the bigger I got, the less attentive he was to me. Started wearing his headphones a lot around the house, never really seemed to want to talk or spend time with me. I felt like at this point I was basically pleading with him to please just give me attention, please be the best friend you used to be, I missed the connection. This was also during the start of the pandemic so I thought maybe he’s just bored of being stuck at home so much. We decided to have another baby this year, with of course more control of my depression this time around hoping things would be easier. But even though we decided on a baby, it felt like pulling teeth trying to get him to have sex with me. We’ve never have had a lot of sex, I always initiate and plead for it. He always blames it on either being tired from work or he’s tired from just regular life things. It’s just always been some excuse to it. Finally got pregnant and we just had our baby a couple of months ago. During the summer I was on his computer trying to open a work thing that wasnt working on my MacBook, and I noticed his Instagram had recently been logged on there. I know I shouldn’t have looked, but after feeling so distant from him for so long I just needed to feel like the best friend I married was still there. But of course I got hurt. I saw he had pictures of random girls in bikinis, girls with their boobs bouncing, and girls in tight leggings basically opening up spread eagle to show off their pussy. I checked the dates from when they were posted/saved and they were all from around the time I was my biggest, when I felt my lowest and the most desperate for his attention. I didn’t tell him because I felt so shitty about it but of course it made me so insecure while pregnant and we were constantly fighting. After I had the baby he stayed home for a few weeks, things were okay between us but I finally snapped and brought up that I saw things he shouldn’t be doing, not giving specifics. I checked his Instagram again while he was out, he suddenly had deleted all of the girls that were saved. He at first apologized and seemed sorry but, it wasn’t very sincere, a few days later I couldn’t take the guilt anymore and told him what I did and what I saw, and he got defensive, tried to tell me “show me where you see that” on his Instagram and told him they’re not there because you deleted them but I have pictures of it saved. Then he says he deleted them because he suddenly realized I didn’t deserve that disrespect. Then All he said was “well I can tell you for sure I wasn’t talking to anyone” trying to defend himself. This argument was so long, so many tears, so many circles, and I finally explained to him it felt like a punch in the gut finding him saving these girls from the time when I was so desperate for his attention. And he was so distant. I felt like I lost my husband. Like I never really knew him or had him. We’ve argued a few more times since then but he does seem really sorry. Now he constantly tries to be affectionate, wants sex and is talking to me openly about it, but it feels like why now? Where was this person five years ago? Eight years ago? He says he knows he fucked up and doesn’t want to lose me, but I never thought he would stray away from me just because I gained some weight. It’s down now that I had the baby, but what if I gain it back? He swears he never wants to lose me and that I’m the love of his life and he’ll never fuck up again but it’s hard to believe him when he behaved such a different way with me for so long. Is it possible for him to just see his wrongdoing and suddenly want to change? Suddenly want to date me again? He suddenly seems so in love with me since I told him I had already planned on leaving him before we talked, like he woke up and realized we’re married. I’m just so scared he’s going to stray again. I don’t know if this is all genuine and he’s suddenly wants me the way he says he always has.
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2022.01.25 07:44 Akhbby Oh well!
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2022.01.25 07:44 stonerboner4 How do remove subreddit from a custom feed?
2022.01.25 07:44 AssPork Teamfight-winning kick by Lee Sin
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2022.01.25 07:44 YeezyGOD69 It truly will
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2022.01.25 07:44 jiyannareeka  JINJIN & ROCKY - Just Breath @ SBS MTV The Show
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2022.01.25 07:44 kemma_ Linus Torvalds Announces First Linux 5.17 Kernel Release Candidate - 9to5Linux
2022.01.25 07:44 Yadontsaythatt I was a very happy chappy yesterday! Mystic scrolls were nice to me! Is Juno just as good as her wind counter part? And can't find much info on the water surfer. I know he's new.
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2022.01.25 07:44 NoeMoriarty Is There Any Sexual Scenes?
2022.01.25 07:44 wildjpn1 What’s your favorite romantic gesture in showing your love for a SO?
I like to journal quite a lot. And sometimes , when the moment is right, I liked to read my SO passages from our early dates about how I felt or what I thought. She loved it.
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2022.01.25 07:44 Tanmay_Raju If I see anything masculine i get scared
2022.01.25 07:44 JohnAEX Ophthalmoscope spawn rate makes you earn that clinic's THICC case
That LedX ain't the problem, you just bite the bullet and craft one in MedStation lvl 3 or get lucky in E110 I guess.
But that Ophthalmoscope will make you work for the THICC case, or at least it did in my case. Here are some stats for your amusement:
2022.01.25 07:44 hodlbtcxrp Is capitalism antinatalist?
Antinatalism is a philosophy that assigns a negative value to birth. It contrasts to natalism. Policies can be described as natalist or antinatalist. For example, subsidising childcare is natalist and subsidising contraception is antinatalist. The One Child Policy is antinatalist but the Three Child Policy is natalist.
Some view natalism as important and believe that policies should be implemented to boost fertility rate in order to fix the "ageing population" problem. However, others believe that low fertility rate is a good outcome which will help reduce congestion and improve the environment.
What I have noticed is that many countries seem to experience fertility rate decline as they become capitalist and especially when they have been capitalist for a long time (what some may describe as "late capitalism").
A good example is China, which although many would describe as a communist country, implemented reforms in the 1970s when Chairman Mao died and was replaced by Deng Xiaoping. The fertility rate then collapsed from about 6 babies per woman under Mao's Agrarian Socialism to about 1.3 babies per woman today after market reforms.
Based on these observations, it is tempting to think that capitalism as an economic or political system is inherently antinatalist.
What we can see from the history of many countries is that capitalism prioritises capital over labour and that capitalism encourages the accumulation of capital. Under Chairman Mao, it was illegal to own capital. However, under Deng Xiaoping, it is legal to own capital such as property, cars, etc.
When you own capital, you gain from other people's labour. So for example, suppose I owned a factory. Then I gain when other people work in my factory. I make profits off other people's hard work.
If I were to have children, that means that I must pay for the child. If I pay money to have a child, that means I have less money left over, which means I accumulate less capital. Therefore, in order to accumulate as much capital as possible, I will not have children or have fewer children.
Furthermore, the more capital there is, the more work there is to be done. So suppose someone accumulates a lot of money from working and convert it into capital by building factories. They build multiple factories. Because of all these factories, workers now have more jobs. More jobs are created when factories are created. When workers work at these factories, they have less time to have kids. In fact, if someone spends a year looking after a child rather than work at a factory, they lose whatever income they would have earned from working in the factor. Capital accumulation has created a higher opportunity cost for having kids.
Moreover, the more children a worker has, the more he needs to pay for the children, which makes him more dependent on working. A worker who is childfree may be able to retire early in his or her 40s if they work hard and save money and invest in capital. However, if they have children, their retirement is pushed out to e.g. their 60s.
When a worker has children, not only does he sabotage his early retirement but he also creates another worker (his child) who will be an input into capital in the future. So basically the benefits of procreation go to the capitalists who gain profits and dividends from their factories while the actual costs of raising the children fall on the worker.
To summarise, capitalism encourages accumulation of capital, which reduces fertility because having kids means you accumulate less capital. You have fewer kids or no kids in order to accumulate more capital. Furthermore, when you accumulate more capital, that capital, if labour is an input into that capital, will create higher opportunity costs for workers to have children. Moreover, the more children a worker has, the more dependent he is on capital, so if he wants independence from capital then he needs to have fewer kids or no kids. When a worker has children, the capitalists of the future benefit from having more labour that they can use to create more money for themselves. By holding capital, the labour that future generations provide to that capital can be harnessed for profit, but the costs of raising children falls on workers.
It seems then that capitalism disincentives procreation and incentivises being childfree or having few kids. Is capitalism inherently antinatalist?
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2022.01.25 07:44 TrafficoLights The most based song in the whole North American continent
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2022.01.25 07:44 Faction_Chief @USATODAY: Another Russian invasion of the former Soviet republic would be “the most consequential thing that’s happened in the world, in terms of war and peace, since World War II,” Biden said. https://t.co/xfle5gd8Uz
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2022.01.25 07:44 Vlads-salad-cakes More fuel for the fire. Still just a supplier not a part of the war
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2022.01.25 07:44 Wildmann3 What "budget" subwoofer for my new home system?
I'm new to this sub, and i just bought some speakers and a subwoofer. The setup is: 2x Wharfedale Diamond 250 1x Wharfedale Diamond 240c 2x Wharfedale Diamond 220 1x Wharfedale WH-D10. 1x Denon AVR-X2200W.
I got it used for a fairly decent price.
It's my first setup, coming from a regular soundbar, so i hope the sound will blow me away.
My concern is that the center and the floor speakers have a fair amount of woofers in them, and i would really like for that deep rumble for when im watching movies, which i dont think the WH-D10 can deliver.
Do you guys have a recommendation on what kind of subwoofer i should be looking for?
I've been thinking about looking for a used SVS PB-2000, which goes fairly low, as far as i can read. Then later on, if another one pops up, i might end up with 2 pieces of those.
TL:DR; Subwoofer for delivering deep bass for watching movies, to go with 5 Wharfedale speakers?
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2022.01.25 07:44 CreepyFacedNoob Put in aftermarket seats; now I need to trick the side airbag system
I have a 2003 XRS that I bought as a project car; interior was trashed so I swapped the OEM seats for some fiberglass buckets. This means I have had to disconnect the side airbags and the airbag light on the dash is now on. I have tried connecting 2.2 ohm resistors to the airbag connector; airbag light stayed on even after disconnecting the battery for >30 min. Am I using the wrong resistors? Any help is appreciated. Thanks!
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2022.01.25 07:44 thelittlepandagirl I consider Zhongli my luckiest 5 star. Good luck to all pulling for him today (and onwards)!
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2022.01.25 07:44 TheeEgyptBoy Possible issue with RGB on EK waterblock for GPU
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2022.01.25 07:44 zim321 Is Cadiz okay to spend 3 nights in?
Hello, we are reviving our holiday to Spain that we cancelled over the Christmas holidays and after spending a couple of days in Granada and saving our last 6 days for Seville we have 3 nights left so I ask the above question? I have been to Jerez and that side previously so I don't mean including a day trip, if it is too much I could perhaps spend a night in Malaga on my way from Granada (I believe it has lots of museums) and spend 2 nights in Cadiz - but I do believe it is a very old historic city, any ideas on that?
Woiuld appreciate some advice, also hotel recommendations, where to eat, etc
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