My dad is driving me crazy while I try and grieve

2022.01.24 06:51 Toomanykidslol My dad is driving me crazy while I try and grieve

So my husband unexpectedly passed away just over a week ago and to top it off a week to the day of his passing I got covid.
We have 5 amazing children together who are special needs and I was blessed with 2 amazing stepsons.
My dad (81) is a narcissist who has always believed he can control me…(eg: he once threatened to have me placed in a phyc ward even though I was an adult if I didn’t do as he wanted)
Due to this I’m screening his calls during this period and what calls we do have are small and brief.
The other day I was dealing with my husbands affairs and I get an abusive voice message with him yelling at me that “his phone does work”
Then today he calls me and I reassured him that even though I’m sick I’m ok he responds with “you sound sad” “well yes I am, my husband is gone and I miss him”… my dad replies “well you can’t be sad you have kids you need to care for” now this was not said in a it will be ok voice but a “get over it” kind of way.
I LOST IT… I yelled that I’m allowed to be upset, that my husband is dead but yes I know I have children to think of and that they are my priority.
I found it so ironic as he always put his 2nd wife b4 his own children.
The first phone call I’d had with him after my husband passed he kept going on about how he was feeling and how this made him feel and what he needed to do…. Mind you he had only met my husband back in august and my husband avoided him unless it was to support me.
I also found out he has been calling my brother complaining that I’m not talking to him and how I’m neglecting his needs 😞
I have rang his residence and support services and explained the situation and told them to step up as I’m stepping out atm
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2022.01.24 06:51 General_Material Girl I met says we're moving too fast, she's afraid. We agreed to be friends. Can I ask her if she wants to try again?

So this is someone I met last month.
At first we're pretty chill, then by new year we pretty much turbo-ed the relationship into the stars .. calling each other petnames, planning bucket lists for 2022(getaways, dates, you name it)
She got scared and started making excuses on why she can't meet me(she was still calling me everynight)..
My fault here, at first I told her it's okay no worries and after a while, she asked me if I'm fed up with her not meeting me.. I said yes.
Finally she told me she was feeling pressured, that she's afraid of disappointing me, she says she likes me but our relationship is too fast.
We then agreed to be just friends.
This was last Thursday.
Can I ask her again if she wants to try again, slowly this time? Or should I give her more space.
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2022.01.24 06:51 Bunnymancer RTings says M32U or G7 is the best choices. Is it?

I need a monitor for work (software dev) as well as gaming and RTings pretty much comes down to
M32U or G7 - But both are said to be pretty bad with HDR - Is it just a truth that most work monitors will have bad HDR? Or are there actually good HDR monitors out there? Or are RTings just being Very harsh on HDR on monitors??
And meanwhile my work team are of the mind that 4K is only ever enough for a desk monitor up to 27", after that resolution is too low.
Will I get more out of two 27" 4k monitors than one 32"? And is 4k res low at 1meter distance above 27"?
Or am I just being taken for a ride?
I have a 55" 4k TV - and personally I don't feel I get much out of 1440p vs 4k at that distance - while the HDR on the TV does a whole lot more for me - not to mention raytracing, which of course is going to be rougher at 4k vs 1440p.
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Hi everyone, my wife and I are looking into buying our first home, we have around $130k in savings but can’t access additional $25k in KiwiSaver until 1st of May (3-year contribution rule). As all of the banks require 20% deposit, we started to look at only new builds. ASB also has special floating rate of 2.29% for new build properties. We have income of $175k a year, so we can afford borrowing a decent amount but main problem is low deposit.
We looked at the property last week which we could buy with 13% deposit but then we started thinking if it makes sense to wait 3 months till we have access to our KiwiSaver, so we could be offered a better interest rate. My thinking was also that it seems that house prices might go down a little bit due to higher interest rates and new lending criteria, which means we can take some time and see what’s happening with the market and then buy in May.
What do you guys think, should we try to buy a property now or is it worth it wait for 3 months? I know that no one knows what will happen but I thought maybe you might give us some ideas or have some better knowledge of current property market/insights?
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